July 31, 2007

This Marriage Matter and Timeline for a Nigerian babe.....

I just wan ask this question because I no get time type the whole thing as annoying as it is!

Ok, I understand say by Naija standard, when babe pass 30 years, she suppose marry have children(s), and of course, friends and family go match-make and grumble and whine for the wine they have not drunk on the babe head yet etc etc...

But when a man toast woman and she no gree hin own, when a man outrightly proposes to a babe within two weeks of meeting her, just because "He wants to get married!", and doesn't comprehend why a babe of over 30 years would be saying no to "his handsome" self etc...........DOES THAT FREAKING GIVE HIM THE RIGHT TO SAY TO THE WOMAN MONTHS AFTER SHE ASSUMES HE HAS GOTTEN OVER HIS PROPOSAL BEING REJECTED......"YOU KNOW TIME IS PASSING YOU BY SHA!!!"

What freaking gives a man (except your father, brothers, family) the right to say that to a woman!!!??? Just because she said NO to him!!!!???

What sane woman would say YES to a proposal that drops within 2 weeks of meeting a guy because he has 'marriage' on his immediate agenda?!! Just because he is tired of being 'lonely' and "wants a woman by his side?"!! Keep in mind that he has been married before?!!!!! And still grumbles about that marriage that packed up years ago!!!Does that smell of a man that has emotional issues or what?!!!!

Did I mention that he actually cried so many times on the phone and face-to-face because ...."she is not loving him back?"(Blah!!!! In my book, men DONT cry! Unless its on a death matter!!) That stinks of a man with ISSUES!!!!

And OK, he is not Igbo man (at least there I hail the Igbo man cos he will NOT cry!!!:fing24: He is from Ghana! in his almost late forties and cries?!!!! Haba!!!!

OK, I shall not vent in my normal way......cos I am listening to Prayerthon right now on my church's website.....later, I shall really vent more here in my blog!!!!

Nonsense Yeye African Men!!! Imagine trying to put pressure by saying 'time is passing by'! For who? Because person know say you no near the "Mr Almost Right" not to talk of Mr. Right?! hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

The guy obviously lost on the intended home-run!!What nonsense?The fact that he is almost blackmailing you into an unprepared yes to his sorry-ass-get-married-fast agenda,spells of failure.When the heat is down,both of you would have seen the fault in a mere two weeks acquitance that led to marriage.You couldn't be wiser and don't worry,the right guy is pretty close

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