For singles ladies:
How do you feel with younger married siblings? Especially sisters?I have two brothers, one is married, and the other one is gettting married this year too! So, I am the only single person in my family! !!! lol..... It dont bother me though. I actually encouraged my brother to marry his girlfriend of 6 years! I am like, "dude, what are you waiting for?! Marry this babe before another guy steals her from you O!" That babe, my sis-in-law proved herself worthy to bear our last name!
She was there when my brother finished his housemanship, when he started working, when he even had to quit his job once when the traveling became too much and once he couldnt get fuel for his car, he rushed to catch the last vehicle to Zaria, missed it by minutes and later learnt that the vehicle had an accident and all occupants died. Then, a family meeting was held as per "FASHY PFIZER ABEG!!!" But, my sis-in-law was still there during the jobless months (even though bobo was well taken care of), but she still stuck there till he got a better job.....infact, my brother is blessed! That is the way a woman should be! Stand by her man! (And I had done that twice and came out burnt! Jobless goat I fell in love with, and got engaged to! Only say when the idiot find job come begin make small money, hin leave me follow under 25!! Imagine! And i was 29 then!! Hissssssssssss These days, I dey shine eyes O! Bobo get to have a j.o.b! Kapish! ) Anyway, I was glad when he decided to marry her. Cos I told him she had invested too much to not be his wife. I asked him one question: "You dont like me crying of heartbreaks, would you want what happened to me to happen to her? Please dont be like the losers I have always dated! Show that there are still honorable men in the world" And he married her! And they have given my parents a GRANDCHILD! So, that closed the story of "We want a grandchild O!, Stop being picky, marry and give us one!" They have one! Thanks to my brother! pressure reduce small! Phew!!
Now my second brother is getting married to his babe of 4 years! Yipppeee! It was supposed to have been a double wedding with my other brother, but they changed their minds! And I was supposed to have gotten married same year too! A triple wedding would have rocked the whole palace and people that day! Oh well! Mine flopped! :-). 1st brother's happened, now last brother is getting hooked this year! I am very proud of my brothers!! They are my bestest friends! I love them to death and they are proofs that there are well brought up men, and there are men who are responsible, there are men who are caring, there are men who are honest, and there are men who know how to take care of a woman!
So, you see, that is why inspite of the basketful of heartbreaks I have had, and the failed engagements and relationships, I refuse to believe all men are evil or beasts!! I know there are good ones! I just havent met them! And that is why I am not in a haste to settle for less. I have three solid men in my life who are the Best Fathers, husbands and also my Daddy and brothers.
So, ladies, single ladies, how do you feel when your younger siblings get married before you? I have no sister, but I am guessing a younger sister getting married before an older one is hard to swallow? It creates emotional rejection issues, and/or even envy and jeaslousy? Am I right? Pray, tell.....